Poker is all about betting on yourself. Yes, in an isolated instance of a single hand you’re navigating the cards you’re dealt, but across a lifetime in poker you’re betting that you’ve got the skills to win. Betting on yourself gives you autonomy over the results you want and grows your confidence when you succeed.
Here’s how to bet big on yourself in any area of your life:
Outline Your Goals
Any bet has defined parameters. For Timex’s recent free throw bet, these parameters were to make 90/100 free throws by the end of 2020 without help collecting rebounds. To bet on yourself, you’ll want to specify the criterion of what constitutes a win.
Many goals are related to career, finances, relationships, or health: if you can’t think of what to work towards, consider your satisfaction in these four domains. Famously, the Staples brothers won $150,000 by moving from 304lbs and 134lbs to within a pound of one another in a year! The newly 188lb brothers each felt much healthier at their new weight and were immensely proud of their results in this major wager.
While you probably will not be literally betting money against another person, undertaking an audacious challenge is very much a bet with yourself. You can think of the valuable time you spend working on your goals as chips you’re wagering. For higher stakes and further accountability, publicizing your goals to friends and family will put social currency on the line.
You can also use prop bets as a commitment device. One idea is to give a friend $100 and tell them “if I don’t finish three books by the end of the month, you can donate this to your favorite charity.” Once you have time constraints, measurable goals, and some type of meaningful stakes for yourself, it’s time to book that bet!
Tools at your disposal
You’ve placed a bet on yourself, now how do you approach winning that bet? While each bet has a unique path to victory, there are a few resources that can be universally beneficial:
Most tasks will require some type of learning. Even something as instinctive as running a marathon becomes demonstrably easier when you learn pacing or proper technique. We’re living in a generation of information availability; Udemy, LinkedIn Learning, Khan Academy, Reddit and even Discord are treasure troves to learn nearly anything you could imagine. If you’re seeking great information on all things poker, look no further than our free classes.
The journey to achieving the unlikely is rarely linear. You might try a host of strategies or progress in irregular spurts. To maximize efficiency and to maintain your motivation, tracking your results will be a lifesaver.
I recently bet a friend that I could achieve a certain score on the GRE (like the SAT but for grad school.) I was annoyed by how slow-moving my study progress was at first; I would learn a concept only to forget it two weeks later. But once I used an error log to isolate my weaknesses and skip my strengths, I got three times as much done per hour of study. This online tracking tool reminded me of how far I’d come every time I logged in, from then on the bet was as good as won.
Accessing Expert Mentors
“Learn from the mistakes of others. You can’t live long enough to make them all yourself.” – Eleanor Roosevelt.
For most any aspiration, someone has been there before. Humans are naturally altruistic when it comes to sharing what they’re great at; utilize the knowledge of someone who has conquered your bet before.
A great way to find mentors is to look up interviews related to your goal, then reach out to the interviewees on LinkedIn. You can also ask friends or colleagues if they know anyone who excels at your goal. An introduction through a mutual friend will lionize your target mentor and butter them up to coach you through your bet.
Any Bet on Yourself is a Bet Worth Making
If there’s a sure thing to go all in on, it’s yourself. You know exactly how capable you are, how quickly you learn, and how dedicated you will be. In a world that regularly underestimates women, you have to make your own opportunities and have faith in yourself.
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