In the fast-paced world of finance, where numbers often overshadow narratives, Lule Demmissie stands out as a beacon of inspiration. Recently, Être Girl Ella Siew had the privilege of interviewing her, and it became evident that her journey transcends mere career milestones; it’s a testament to resilience, passion, and the pursuit of purpose. Être Girls is an organization that gives high schoolers like Siew an opportunity to connect with mentors. Using poker as a lens, Demmissie’s fireside chat with Siew contained many lessons from the industry leader and poker player.
This interview marks the third installment in the Poker Pioneers series, a collaboration between Être Girls and Poker Power. The initiative connects girls with accomplished female mentors who also happen to play poker. This week’s spotlight is on Lule Demmissie, whose journey exemplifies the power of determination and strategic thinking.
Demmissie’s journey with poker began anew when she was reintroduced to the game by Jenny Just. This rekindled passion not only allowed her to enjoy the charm of poker but also to recognise its profound relevance to everyday life. “Poker does not only have to be seen as a game of risk or deception, but in a positive light of skill development and strategy,” Siew writes. This perspective resonated with Siew, especially when considering how the incremental nature of poker mirrors the complexities of real-life decision-making.
One of the most significant takeaways from the discussion between student and mentor was how poker encourages a more strategic and probabilistic way of thinking. Demmissie explained how this mindset shifted her approach to challenges: instead of viewing situations through a binary lens of right and wrong, she began to assess them with a broader perspective. “[Looking at things through a strategic lens] is important, especially when beginning to learn how to deal with difficult situations or new people,” Siew discovered. This insight is particularly relevant as she navigates the trials of high school, where every decision can feel monumental.
Moreover, Demmissie emphasized the parallels between poker and life in terms of long-term and short-term decision-making. “In poker, you’re constantly calculating future moves and assessing new opportunities,” she noted, highlighting how this skill is equally applicable to making important life choices. This analogy struck a chord with Siew, reminding her that every choice she makes contributes to a larger strategy in my life’s journey.
Poker, as Demmissie illustrated, also fosters a sense of community. She actively encourages young women to embrace the game, not only for its strategic benefits but also for the joy and camaraderie it can bring. “In this way, poker enriched her social life and helped her celebrate power as women,” Siew wrote. The mentor has taught her children and friends to play and even hosted poker parties. This approach underscores the idea that learning can be both enjoyable and empowering.
One of the most profound lessons Siew gleaned from Demmissie was the importance of embracing the journey rather than fixating on obstacles or regrets. “If you rob yourself of being present, you are essentially forfeiting the right to go to the next level,” Demmissie stated. This perspective has made Siew reflect on her own tendencies to dwell on past mistakes or worry about future outcomes, often overlooking the opportunities available in the present moment.
As Siew continues her journey through high school, Demmissie’s advice on maintaining a positive attitude and an open mind during challenges will undoubtedly serve as a guiding principle. Her experiences and insights have instilled in this young Être Girl the belief that every setback is not an end, but rather a step along my path to growth.
